(in the bad sense of the word) where when the relationship is there, they might still yell "judgmental" but before long the truth is seen and the relationship is repaired because deep down the "accused" knew it was spoken in love. Please do not misunderstand me, I am not saying it will work every time if you do it "right" but if you do do it according to the Lord's plan to the best of your ability, at least then you have not become part of the problem.
This is a really hard one that really weighs heavy on my heard and of which I am by no means claiming to have "gotten". Both reasons why I thought I would share my thoughts on this subject, as a reminder to me and to share my thoughts and possible encourage others.
Thanks for letting me think out loud a bit. :-)
With Prayers,
Sarah